babble

It goes without saying that G is continuously discovering knew things.  She’s currently in a “monkey see, monkey do” phase that is incredibly entertaining.

But as far as vocabulary goes? We only really need one “word”:

“Dat”

That’s right. Dat. I hear “dat” approximately 73,902 times per day. Now. I’m 99% sure she is saying “that” when she says this. Because it’s said so emphatically and usually is accompanied with a pointed finger.  I have started taking her to whatever “dat” is at the moment and letting her touch it – DAY MADE right there.

“Dat” is a complete sentence in a 14 month old’s world.  It is a placeholder for many questions, including, but not limited to:

“Can I have that?”

“What is that?”

“Can you see that?”

“I did that?”

Since it most often sounds like a question, I try my darndest to answer it.

“Dat?”

“That’s a light”

“Dat?”

“Yes! You made your music play.”

“DAT!”

“No sweetie, this is momma’s coffee. You need to drink from your own cup please.”

G’s teachers at school laugh and tell me that they can hardly get her through a meal because she is so busy pointing at everything around her. Announcing the presence of every inanimate object with an emphatic “Dat!”

Every once in a while, she’ll point at the dog and say “dat” and I will say “Yes! Dog! Way to go!” Because by golly, that’s close enough to sounding like dog and we’re going to celebrate it.

Not to undersell her verbal skillz, I should mention that she says momma (usually when she’s upset so it’s more like moooooommmmmaaaaaaaa) and dada. And she makes us laugh with her babbling “lectures” complete with exaggerated arm movements (Like I said: monkey see, monkey do. I feel a little bit like I’m being mocked by my toddler when this happens. I TALK WITH MY HANDS, OKAY?)

But for the most part, “dat” is where it’s at.

I feel like I have to write posts like these so I will remember a time when one word was sufficient to express her every need, desire, question, achievement, etc.

Because, bless it, if she’s anything like her momma then we have a real chatterbox on our hands.

And I will probably long for the days of “dat”.

 

 

st pats

Ever the last-minute lass when it comes to secondary holidays (I’m looking at you, Valentines Day), it dawned on me late yesterday afternoon that today is St. Patrick’s day.

Color me unprepared.

Just like in my last Pinterest round up, these crafts are all easy-peasy and require very few materials.  I’m not a “pinterest” mom, so if you’re looking for something elaborate, you are in the wrong place.

5 Last Minute St. Patrick’s Day Crafts for Kids

  1. Shamrock TP roll stamp2014-02-28 14.58.58There’s nothing I don’t love about this. We did this exact same thing at Valentines day but made hearts with it.  G loved it. I loved it. It was easy, and all I had to buy was paint.
  2. Rainbow & pot of gold necklace14a77024b69247035229fab1579e079c I think this is a super fun idea for bigger kids, and all you need is construction paper and scissors!  It would also be fun to decorate a doorway with the paper links to make a “rainbow” in your house.
  3. Bell Pepper Stamp43ef8f5346ae131a91fb027592081592 You might be sensing a theme here. I love a stamp. But how cute is this? I’m super curious to see if this works.
  4. Leprechaun With Fork Bearde65ea7866fa1f1925d2ee768dcdb72ac Well, Props to this person for having googly eyes on hand and for using a metal fork.  In my house this will be happen with drawn on eyes and I’m only willing to sacrifice a plastic fork. Same-ish result…hopefully.
  5. Water Bottle Stamp07091c61475c7bc22b6904c400501d79Using a water bottle as a stamp may be the most genius thing of all time ever.  For one thing, there’s little G loves more than playing with a plastic water bottle. For another, the opportunities here are ENDLESS.  Fun fun fun to be had with this.

 

Oh, and if crafts aren’t your jam – just make this guacamole and serve it with corn chips along side my southwestern sweet potatoes for dinner. It’s green. It counts. Just go with it.

Last weekend, G and I went with my mom to see some family.  And while we were there, we ended up looking through some things that had belonged to my grandparents.

Among some jewelry and a few watches, was a little note.  I posted it on Facebook so if you follow me there, sorry, you’re seeing this again.

My grandpa left a note for my grandma with a few things he’d like to have from the grocery store.  And he signed off on it like this:

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Her response, “Guess what, I love you, too!” Is just the sweetest.

This exchange, totally ordinary to them, is now a tangible reminder of their love.  It warmed my heart to hold this note. To have something I could touch that showed how well they loved each other.

And it occurred to me that one day, my grandchildren likely won’t stumble upon things like this.  We communicate these same messages through text now. And those aren’t lasting. It’s nothing that anyone would one day hold dear.

Every day when we get home from school & work, I carry G to the mailbox and check the mail.  She then helps me “sort” it and we go inside to play.  When we’re sorting the mail I find myself pushing aside all the junk, making a pile of bills, and keeping my eyes peeled for anything with actual handwriting on it.

Because who doesn’t love real mail?

I’m a stationary lover, and I’m a fan of a thank you note, but I cannot remember the last time I sat down and hand-wrote something for someone.  And isn’t there something more special, more personal about that?

I know myself well enough to know that I’m not going to be the type to just sit down and write letters randomly to people, but what I am going to do is be more intentional when the opportunity to praise someone arises.  I have talked about lighting candles and being intentional in prayer before, but this is infinitely more simple.

When the occasion arises, I’m going to spend 5 minutes and hand-write a note to someone. Birthdays, Christmas, weddings, new jobs, etc.  I’m not sure what matters more to me than the people that I love knowing how much I love them.

And it may sound silly, but I want G to know what my handwriting looks like.  I want her to be able to look back at what I’ve to her written in books and cards and for those words to have meaning and to bring her joy.

Because if a grocery list could bring back a flood of warm memories of my grandparents, just imagine what else our hand-written words could do.